She has problems and wants you to take care of imagined injustices against her. This is not healthy behavior, and as I've read the thread I went from an initial conclusion that it's confirmation bias making her think he's stomping to thinking she has mental issues.
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Originally Posted by boink
thanks Jumpin J.
I think this hasn't ever been a great relationship but not adversarial so...being pritty easy going I just rolled w/ the times she was getting aggro.
at the start I found her attractive and she was all over me....nowadays, I'm not really feelin it...I just roll w/ it. if you get me.
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You're letting yourself be a doormat because you're afraid to hurt her feelings. News flash: you're not her messiah and you're not going to save her from her problems unless she takes some initiative. You need to grow a spine and either break up with her for good or force her to get help instead of just rolling with it, because you're clearly not happy with the way things are and your first priority should be you.