If she's a good friend, you may want to have a talk appealing to her basic humanity. If she really cares about the guy, then how can she continue this secret abuse of trust? He's older and most likely has a blind dedication to his future vision of family and doesn't want to consider betrayal. Hopefully she will show some dignity and come clean, letting the guy move on. It doesn't sound like she's done sowing her oats.
If she's not such a close friend, perhaps lotsofmagnet's suggestion of a helping hand might provide some interesting drama. If drama is not worth the backlash, steer clear.
I personally couldn't watch a sap get suckered and would intervene at some level. Hopefully someone would do the same for me.
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