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So, assuming this is a 'normal' relationship, and the guy doesn't already know and approve of his fiance's habits...he's going to find out eventually. Would he rather find out now, or after they've been married for 3 years, and have 2 kids together?
Hint: Now.
However, it would probably be (slightly) better if he heard it from a friend of his. Also, keep in mind you may be in for an ass kicking if you tell him, and he doesn't believe you. Despite any and all logic and reason, I've seen otherwise intelligent people deny the obvious in situations like this.
So, while it would be much better for him to know about her behavior, you have to realize you're inserting yourself into a very unpleasant situation.
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