Willravel: Your case of sterility used as an example seems understandable and certainly reasonable to me, if a little off subject. I understand it represents a spouse lying to another spouse about something of great import. However, in your case the sterility affects you presently. How do a partner's premarital indiscretions affect your life given that they were done discreetly and with no bad outcome, such as disease or something?
Dlish: Do you know what the expectations for men coming to the marital bed are? Virginity for both? I dont know, but I hope its fair and true on both sides. Interesting note of yours re France's muslim population and their tenuous peace. Im going to read more about it.
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