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Originally Posted by dlish
my rule s..stay out as late as possible and be out as early as possible to avoid any friction.
that way you wont have a chance to rub anyone up the wrong way
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The friends my SO and I typically stay with would kill us if we did this. When we visit, they expect to be our hosts (the reverse never happens, as we live in their hometown) and give us a choice of activities to do, with or without them (we're really familiar with where they live, it's our favorite vacation destination, and my SO used to live there). We go there not just to do all the things we like to do (frisbee, hiking, biking, outdoorsy stuff) but to do them with our friends.