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Originally Posted by abaya
Agreed.  Are you both willing to sign up for therapy? If you're quite serious about trying to keep the relationship alive (and eventually thriving, which should be the goal of all relationships, I would think), I really recommend that you actively seek out counseling. Many of us on this board have been there, done that... no harm in trying. |
Leave it to abaya to suggest therapy/counseling...
It's up to you whether it works out or not. If you're willing to change your perception on things that bother you (pretty friggin' hard to do), then you got a chance. If not, decide for yourself how much longer you're willing to put up with it.