I am going to have to be the bastard and say not to waste your time with couples counseling.
First, I hate shrinks after having seen three in my elementary years and teens, and the last two were practically useless. Second, you both are very young. Again, my opinion is that one should have a life before settling into a relationship. If she is less adventurous than you, then there is a problem and you do not have to stand for it. Personally, if you can't work it out "in house" or discussing this with her family (with her knowledge you are doing so), then it might as well be over.
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Originally Posted by Jinn
"Let's talk it out" is not the solution for everyone...
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Very true, but if she isn't willing to talk about what is on her mind, and not willing to talk to a professional, then what is left of the relationship?