When I first joined (thanks to my lurking bf at the time, ktspktsp
), I had never heard of the porn around here... but I loved the Sexuality forum and the frankness that all of the members seemed to have. ShaniFaye in particular stood out to me as someone who would answer questions without apology or judgment. I appreciated that a lot, at the time. I had never seen a group of people who were so open about their sexual practices and behavior. It was refreshing. (Of course, eventually I discovered the porn, which was a lot of fun to explore as well... but has never been a primary reason for me being here.)