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Originally Posted by Willravel
Who was stoning? Who was stoned?
Precedent for this is people lying before getting married. It just happens to be a Muslim couple. Christians, Jews, and Hindus could have just as easily done this. Shoot, atheists could have.
If I met a wonderful woman, fell in love and found out she used to be a man, I'd get a big fat annulment. Not because I'm against people doing what makes them happy, but because he/she lied to me.
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How did he/she lie to you? Did you ASK them directly that they were a woman? Is that an actual question you've posed to your girlfriend?
"Hey, were you born a girl?"
"I just wanted to ask if you were born a man and switched to being a girl. So were you born a man?"
If they ommited that fact by never mentioning it how is it a lie to you? As far as she is concerned she is now a woman and will continue to be one for the future. Now I could see if she was reverting back to being a man as a dealbreaker, but if she continued being a woman, how is that a lie?
In the same vein could one be a recovered alcoholic/drug addict and that be grounds? It's their past right? That's what is important right?
Or is the most important thing the very much future that the two people have and how they will create that future?
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