From your description I'd say that your girlfriend has some issues. It's hard to say what, being that I don't know her.
The thing that strikes me the most about your OP, though, is how you use the word 'we' to describe the good things and the word 'she' to describe all but one of the problems. Do you think you could be doing things that exacerbate or even cause some of these problems? Or is it that, in a way, you have already given up?
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