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One thing i haven't seen brought up in this thread is male/female tendencies in relationships... what fullfills them and what their needs are.
for most girls it's about attention.... feeling valued, listened to, and appreciated. of course a girl can get turned on by a hot guy, but especially in a longterm relatioship, it's most about their emotional fullfillment, and they just don't need that physical visual attraction quite as much as guys do.
what guys tend to want most is affection. this can be attained from emotional things like being appreciated and listened to.... but even more its source comes from sexuality and physical contact... and there's a very strong visual element to this, so they're much more driven by physical appearance when it comes to being turned on.
so every guy has to draw the line somewhere personal for themselves, and if she's crossed yours, don't feel guilty demanding she get back on the other side of the line, and don't feel guilty moving on if you have to.
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