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To the OP, keep in mind that this is an issue you will get completely different advice from men and women on. It is an incredibly sensitive issue for women.
I've had the pleasant surprise of talking to a few women about weight who didn't it personally, but they were by far the exception rather than the rule. I appreciate that the TFP women who have posted thus far have managed to keep it civil.
For my advice? You absolutely have to tell her or leave. Those are the only two feasible options.
The flip side, of course, if that you have to be willing to held to the same standard as her.
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Last edited by Jinn; 06-02-2008 at 08:42 AM..
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