LLL

Update:

We had a "long talk" last night and it's pretty clear she is really depressed... Her depression seems to be the cause of quite a lot of things, now we've had chance to reflect on it, so hopefully once that's sorted everything will be good again. I think it's going to be a long process, but at least we went to the gym together this morning for the first time in months.

Thanks for all your thoughts - you've all been a great help.

That's actually pretty awesome! That's a fast but healthy rate to lose weight I think.