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My 2 cents? Ultimatum time.
Nine months without sex, you don't have a girlfriend anymore. You just have a friend who is a girl.
You should tell her that she needs to meet you halfway here--you'll stick with her if she does these three things:
1. Stop drinking. I mean it, none at all. It ruins your blood sugar, a beer is worse than sitting down and eating a bowl of table sugar.
2. Get at least 45 minutes of exercise DAILY. You can break that into two chunks but don't listen to people who say it's ok to spread it out in 5 minute intervals over the day, your body's metabolism won't budge unless you force it to.
3. Discuss mood issues with her doctor. May I recommend Wellbutrin - one of the very, very few antidepressants that actually cause weight loss (most cause weight GAIN). It affects the brain chemicals that have to do with motivation and pleasure, and will really her get off her ass.
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