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I think talking to her will also help you discover just how much she loves you in return. If she discovers the extent to which this bothers you, her willingness to at least try to change her lifestyle and become physically fit, you two have probably got a chance. If she immediately dismisses the concept of even trying to get healthy and begins accusing you of "not loving her", etc etc, then odds are, she's not remotely committed to the relationship, but rather, she's attempting to just cling to you because she fears her weight and appearance won't get her another boyfriend.
Back to your question of fun, healthy activities:
Rock climbing (look for indoor walls in your area)
Swimming
Hiking
Martial Arts classes
Sports (something like a mens/womens mixed softball league)
Rollerblading/rollerskating
Sex, if you can manage it
Cycling as mentioned
Geocaching (really adds something to the whole hiking thing)
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