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having a bit more of a think about this. from my perspective a relationship is based on mutual respect and it certianly doesn´t sound like she´s respecting your opinion. perhaps you need to think about the state of your relationship. i´m not saying "dump her fat arse" in the least but your description is starting to draw striking parallels to my ex (who was only slightly overweight) and the weight was a symptom of rather than the root of the problem which turned out to be the general person she was (and probably still is.) maybe you need to sit down and talk to her in a concise manner outlining how you feel so she can see from your perspective. after 4 years of relationship you should be able to cut to the chase and know how to do so without being offensive.
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mother nature made the aeroplane, and the submarine sandwich, with the steady hands and dead eye of a remarkable sculptor.
she shed her mountain turning training wheels, for the convenience of the moving sidewalk, that delivers the magnetic monkey children through the mouth of impossible calendar clock, into the devil's manhole cauldron.
physics of a bicycle, isn't it remarkable?
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