I am not sure what advice I can offer but I wish you and your SO the best.
I have a feeling though that even if she did lose the weight that she will feel resentment towards you for past behaviors (good or bad). I would like to see her lose weight to be healthier and feel more positive about herself, if she can't do it for herself, she'll never be able to do it for you.
We all have deal breakers.
So you both work out together?
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