@Cynthetiq - It is totally shallow, yes, and I've no problem admitting that I want the girl I love more than anything in the world to take better care of herself.
However, a thyroid problem and apathy are two very different things. Assuming it is indeed apathy, which it may not be, but it's definitely not a thyroid problem. Thinking about it, perhaps that's the problem: I don't even vaguely understand why she doesn't take better care of herself. Hmm...
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Originally Posted by Makia
I think I'm beginning to see everyone's point, even if I can't directly relate to it.
I very much agree with the idea of leading by example. It's hard to want to lose weight when someone is just demanding it from you, but its different when someone wants you to do it WITH them.
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God I so wish you were right. The time I've spent helping encouraging her in gyms has made me very fit, but not really done a great deal for her. I think she does find gyms boring though, which is to be understood.
@lotsofmagnets - yes, that's the case.
By the way, the title of this post was only meant to be eye-catching. I think most of you get the gist of the problem.