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I think you're perfectly justified in what you're thinking. Not so much from the fact that she's "fat", but from the standpoint that its perfectly acceptable to want to be with someone who is physically fit. It shows their ability to care about themselves and their well-being, which is important for a healthy body and mind.
A talk is definitely necessary. You could try to put the spin on it that you're concerned for her health and well being, and emphasize that losing weight will make her feel significantly better about herself as well. Seaver made a great point in that its a way for the two of you to do something beneficial together, and your continuous encouragement and guidance throughout diet and exercise will also show your dedication to her.
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