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Originally Posted by Seaver
The sad reality is in her current state, she has less desire to lose weight (and resolve the issue) than to do what is required. Losing weight is difficult, it takes a lot of dedication and hard work. However so do relationships.
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I second this. If she wants to stay with you and keep you happy (which should be done vice versa) than she should take the extra effort to lose weight. The way you describe her, she doesn't care and sees no reason to try, and I can't help but find that ridiculous. It's one thing to be lazy--me sitting on the computer or playing COD4 all day is lazy--but it's another thing entirely to not care about yourself or those around you. Heck, if I got fat (snowball's chance) I would completely understand my girlfriend dumping me, because that would show I obviously don't care.