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As I see it--and I'm not trying to be insensitive or anything--this is your problem, and not hers. Sure, she should probably try to lose weight for health reasons, as probably a lot of us could stand to, but she should NOT be put in a position where she feels she has to for you to be attracted to her.
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I disagree. Feeling attracted to your partner is absolutely required for a relationship to work. This Love-is-blind is a great ideal, but does anyone want to have sex with someone they are not attracted to physically?
I'm not saying she has to weigh a buck and a quarter for him to have sex with her, everyone has different tastes. She does, however, need to understand that needing to be physically attractive matters to you in the relationship.
The sad reality is in her current state, she has less desire to lose weight (and resolve the issue) than to do what is required. Losing weight is difficult, it takes a lot of dedication and hard work. However so do relationships.