Well, at least you admit that it's your perception that's the problem instead of blaming her. Sorry if I came off as judgmental or snarky--I admit I have a hard time seeing this from the perspective of the male.
Maybe you have self-esteem issues of your own, and they're manifesting as an obsession over her imperfections? People who are insecure have a tendency to pick apart the flaws of others. Not that I'm an expert or anything, just a thought.
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