Thank you.
I think my man is similar to little tippler's man described above. It doesnt matter though. I ended it last night. Gaslighting, concealment, withholding, lying, pathological behavior. I couldnt take it anymore.
Still I wonder how he thinks and lives his life. What kind of person would actually have the chutzpah to say to someone in all seriousness that they imagined an event or mistook you when they were standing right next to you and expect one to believe it?! With so many stories going with so many people, and I suspect specific days of the week and people compartmentalized, it must be one wild roadmap inside his head.
The good news is that Ive managed to maintain adult behavior (and thinking, but that has taken until now and is precarious).
Im really quite upset.
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As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons...be cheerful; strive for happiness - Desiderata
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