girldetective

Thank you. This is all good advice.

Now what I really want to know is what the fuck is going on here.

What is he doing and to what purpose, and really is is it even purposeful or is this him? There is nothing slimy nor seemingly mentally ill about him. Really, who is this dude? What is going on with him? Who thinks like that? Who just expects to say something like that and thats it? Its as if he is mocking up his life as he wants it to be and seeing only those things he wishes to see and only at that moment (like we all might at times), but he takes it to such a personal level. Its as if he is a star in his own movie with every other person a role or inconsequential. I dont believe Ive ever met anyone like this. He is very good at pulling one right in, a charmer so to speak, and Ive met people like that before, but in a day-to-day relationship he continues it to the nth degree so much so that he controls the dialogue and where it goes. He is very passive, almost like honey; and good. It feels good just to see him, just to set eyes one him. He makes every moment with him feel special. It is surprising when the real world breaks through, and it always does.

Im detecting here. Im trying to figure it out. Im not whining, or pointing fingers. I just dont understand and Im looking for an explanation of his way of thinking.

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