girldetective

Interesting thing happened tonight. I actually communicated. I casually asked him about it and he said he didnt remember doing that. He said that he would remember if he had done something like that. He said that I was imagining it. He said it was someone else who my girlfriend and I met after he left. I quietly negated each of these. He laughed and repeated the above. I told him no that he did do this, that I was not imagining it. He repeated them. I quietly said not that was not the case. He stopped saying those things then, and went on to bring up that it was someone else until I mentioned that we left when he left and we went to my friend's apartment and then I came home (I was driving) - we didnt talk to anyone else. He then said he didnt remember a couple of times. This conversation took maybe 15 minutes and was one of the oddest of my life. I have never had someone not remember something and tell me that I have imagined it or that I was mistaking them for someone else. I mean please - Im going to mistake my boyfriend for someone else!? Anyway, I was just stunned and sat there and listened to the live music that was playing.

It was a bizarre thing. He laughed nervously sometimes during this conversation and I did too. I had the weird feeling that I was catching him in lies and I said Wow I had caught him unprepared, that he didnt have something scripted or a better lie. To me what was stunning was that he put responsibility on mine and my girlfriend's brain function. It was very odd. Who is this dude?

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