One can change if they want to change. If the relationship is important enough to them, then they will change, not because their partner asks them to, but because they believe that the relationship is more important than the things they are changing. There are times each partner has to make adjustments in order for the relationship to thrive. That being said, sometimes it's better to walk away, sometimes it's better to make the change, only you can decide which is the case here. I would guess that if you can't talk to him about it, the two of you have much deeper problems than this isolated incident.
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