Most of the people on this forum are young and shouldn't be expecting the relationships to be so long. Young people should be free to try out several potential mates before they settle down with just one. Someone else said cheating is probably just a good way to break up.
Having said that, that's not what I did. I had few relationships and married young (at 23). I had a miserable first marriage, got divorced after nine years, got remarried after 3 years and got divorced again after seven years. Now, after 5 years and about 5 more girlfriends, I just might be qualified and ready for another marriage.
My advice: screw around alot and stay single until you're in your forties.
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