Prince:
My perspective: First off, I think it's good that you showed that you trust your wife and didn't blame her for this guy's behavior. I don't think that she is getting what she asked for, unless she's being provocative at the bar. If she gives him a reason to think he could take her out and fuck her in his car, and if he has a t-top camarro and a totally awesome mullet, perhaps I could understand his position. It really depends on the quality of the crystal meth he makes in his trailer, because people fucking each other in cars after drinking with co-workers is pretty much straight-up trailer trash. Regardless, I also would feel concerned about my wife/ladyfriend/etc hanging out with someone who would solicit them, repeatedly, for sex after such a situation. Does your wife want to hang out with this guy? What's her motivation? If someone did that to me, or to my girl, I wouldn't want to have jack shit to do with them. It sounds like she told you about it, which would tend to make me feel more trusting of her...but I'd not want her around the guy, as you can't trust him. Or rather, you can trust him to be himself, which sounds like a moderately creepy guy being disrespectful of you, and of his own wife. Wonder if she's aware of this?
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