I was caught in a similar funk for quite some time and while I feel I may have had less of an excuse for it than others who don't have the fortune of living in a city where something is always going on - the problem and it's causes are still rather universal.
It's been said a million times in threads just like these:
Go out there and do something. Go meet people who have similar interests and start doing what makes you happy. Stop using the weed, the job and porn as a crutch. Start with the small things that you have the most control over and start changing them for the better.
Set goals and dates and you'll eventually see the light at the end of the tunnel. A professional therapist may help you formulate a strategy but the answers will have to come from you.
Good luck.
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