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From what I have acertained, it's a good thing that you and your wife are so like minded, because you'd hate each other otherwise. coming from a fairly decent pysch educational background, I'd say two things. One, anyone who "handicaps" themselves from normal societal conventions, such as shaking hands, due to an inordinate concern of germs might have an obsessive/compulsive issue coming on. I wouldn't give in too much to your fear of germs, just wash your hands before you eat or touch your face or mouth. The people who need to observe this the most are medical professionals, and it seems to be working for them fairly well. The other observation is this: if you are going to throw your hat into the arena of common ideas and exchange of opinions, you would do well to temper your responses to more hospitible tones. The image of you being a bit obsessive might only be reinforced by your hostility.
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