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Originally Posted by ghoastgirl1
This girl sounds like a rebound if I'd ever seen one. Two years down the drain and you're already looking to pick up another girl. When I ended a two year relationship with someone I needed time to get used to being single again and enjoy dating around. However you're a guy..I'm a girl. People are different. I find it hard to believe you contemplating a future just last month with your ex and now you're ready to move on without thinking at all. Just seems too fast to me...
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I know it does certainly appear that way, but I have been unhappy for a VERY long time - going back into last year actually (and there were a few mini "breakups" in the last 2 months) I suppose I was too hopfeul. and with stuff that's happend since, I know it's for the best. Looking back, I think I shouldn't have let it drag on for so long really.
ps I don't see it as two years down the drain in the slightest bit.
as for this other girl, maybe it's just me not wanting to be single, since it's been so long since I have been single. (I suppose I'm also thinking she's probably taken anyways.. but if not, I don't want to wait until she is). But I'm a very instinctive person, and felt something. So I'd rather see if there's anything there, rather then let it pass and wonder. and I'm not just looking for some quick/easy lay, if I wanted that, I'd just go out and meet some pissed girly, but that's not me. and atleast I'm looking forward rather than being all depressed. I've felt like shit the last few months, then when I spoke with my ex end of last week, she said some stuff, and I knew then and there, it's all over, and I felt a lot clearer and better since.
Can totally understand your point though, because yes, that's exactly what it seems like!