I was going to post in LCfedup's I need some advice thread, but decided it was enough off of her topic that it would be threadjacking.
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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
--in that other thread
I see porn, at best, to be a utilitarian thing. It's useful and fun.
At worst, it can lead to men and women having unreal expectations...particularly of women.
I think it's an interesting subject that I would like to talk more about...this and associated ideas have been rolling around in my head for weeks now...and I had a really interesting conversation with my daughter about it a couple of weeks ago.
But I haven't given them the attention necessary to allow them to congeal into a cohesive set of ideas...and I do have the nagging suspicion it would turn into a shitstorm, lol.
Still, I think it's worth talking about.
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Has anyone else noticed that porn has changed?
I was in high school when I first watched porn. Probably about 1992. Back then it was tapes. It wasn't on computers. Remember dialup? It was mostly (from what I recall) boy/girl sex. Lots of oral (Dr. Fellatio) and basic fucking. Occasional girl/girl, or 2 girls one guy. Everbody got off, and a good time was had by all.
I really think that today’s porn is much more abusive towards us women. I remember a porn starr named Oral Annie who could easily “deep throat” any guy. Any guy. Easily. Without breaking a sweat. Even Ron Jeremy, and believe it or not, at one time Ron was thin. Peter North was young, and I wanted his cock. But I digress. Anyway, that’s how long ago this was. But anyway, that’s not good enough now. Now the audience seems to WANT to see the woman choke and gag!
Boy/girl? No! Now it has to be 2 or 3 guys with one girl, double penetration vaginal/anal with oral on the other end while somebody like –I can’t think of his name- forces deep throat while holding the girl’s nose!
And, can we please, at least once in a while, have a scene without anal?
And every cumshot has to be a facial, of course. (I love the feel of a penis in my hands, and jerking a guy off, but I hate facials!) And where did all the good-looking guys go??
So, are we now teaching a new generation that this is what sex is all about? I’m no angel. Counting oral and handjobs, I was probably with a dozen boys before I was sixteen, but they were all one-on-one. My fifteen year old niece has already been with two guys at the same time!
And that’s in Kansas!
Am I just turning into a reactionary conservative fossil at age 31? Was porn always like it is now? Or does anyone else remember more “innocent” porn?
Lindy
My Dad -who knows quite a bit about old porn 'cause for years we rented videos at our store- once had someone tell him that porn was like going to a nice restaurant and paying to sit there and watch other people eat a nice dinner.