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Originally Posted by kennusion
I actually don't have a whole lot of people to talk to about this, so I felt like you guys would be willing listeners and give me any feedback. I just wanted to tell the story, ask a few questions, and see if anyone could relate to me about any of it. I really respect all of what you guys have to say.
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Thanks for opening up to us about this. It's great to have a place to talk about sex.
Most of my answers have been taken by people posting before me, so I'll only touch on this one:
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I think I get anxiety problems right before putting on a condom. I've actually practiced putting them on before, but I have so much more trouble doing it otherwise. I would do it in front of her and have troubles keeping it entirely up... I actually went through two other condoms before getting one on properly.
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Don't stop the foreplay just because you are putting a condom on. Ask her to lick your balls while you put it on, or tweak your nipples, or just keep talking dirty, or... something. Whatever keeps you going. Even ask her to put the condom onto you.
Basically, incorporate the condom into your play.