Yeah, I'm pretty much always going to be looking at porn of some kind while I j/o, so I'm usually thinking about fucking the chicks I'm looking at. But a lot of the time, I end up thinking about girls I know that I would like to fuck-- usually the ones I know are out of bounds, like my friends' wives/girlfriends, or my students, etc. Occasionally, I'll end up actually thinking about the girl I happen to be dating, but that's rare: that's mostly for phone/cyber sex with her. Masturbation is for me.
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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