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					Originally Posted by allaboutmusic
					
				 
				All over the world, there are millions of single men in exactly your position, many of whom will likely remain single until they die. Pretty sad, but the fact is that as long as women feel that the responsibility for making the first move lies with men, shy men are much more likely to remain single than shy women simply because they are less likely to get asked out. 
 
Simple statistics tells us that a sample of one is a poor indicator on which to base an entire philosophy of something, but the human mind is a strange thing! 
			
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 I did end up going out with him many years later, when 
he asked 
me. In fact, we've been married now for well over a decade. But that's still the only time I've  asked a guy out.