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Originally Posted by Manic_Skafe
As long as the desire stems from a healthy place and the parties involved are in a healthy relationship then those feelings are much better left in the realm of emotions that are incapable of being expressed as well as they are felt.
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What's curious about this statement is that it would seem many fetishes do not stem from a healthy place. Pedophilia for example.
Maybe kaynollie will get in on this but he said once that he thinks it all stems back to childhood. I honestly don't see how that could be for most fetishes (though it does definitely occur). I think it's in some people's nature to be more adventurous and that many fetishes stem directly from that desire. But who knows how personal preferences are created, no one can really figure it out. It's got to be both nature and nurture but other than that you can't pin it down too easily.
It's curious but in the end I don't really care. Whatever floats your boat!
