I like my vagina, its pretty awesome
I have longer labia like some of the women in this thread, but I've never really had any problems with that. I was a figure skater and ballet dancer until I was 18, and those tight outfits pretty much show everything, and even then, no problems.
My mom is sexually ignorant (no joke) and actually flipped out years and years ago when I was a little kid, and my labia started to lengthen....how sad is that? Ah well...
As far as pussy grooming, I'm never that consistent. It all depends on how much time I have free if I want to shave. Nowadays, I'm too busy to bother, and so I just keep it trimmed, and if I have free time, and feel like being clean-shaven, will do so. I don't have a wild forest of growth down there to begin with, so its no big deal.
*grins* I'm glad I did shave though, it helped me discover I have a beauty mark between my outer and inner labia...and, call me crazy, I don't care, I think its damn sexy... at least, it makes me feel sexy.