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imo it's a lottery long-shot to get anyone you find attractive to go for even coffee if you don't have a good solid block of time to have a conversation first. first of all, as a guy, if YOU find that girl so attractive you want to ask her out before she gets away, it means you're probably not the first nor will you be the last, and that she probably has her guard up constantly from having had that happen before.
the only way i see this happening in this day and age is 1) if you're equally or more hot than she is, and you rarely get turned down anyway or 2) something happens within a few seconds that brings you together. this can be someone passing through that is rude to you both, or something really funny you both happen to witness, or one of those magical movie "bump into each other" moments.... anything like that works. if you're aware and you can feel that kind of moment take you both over, you can capitalize and at least get that coffee date.
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-my phobia drowned while i was gettin down.
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