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Shooting her dog will make it easier for him to fly out the door.

EDIT: Seriously, though, I don't really think a one-year relationship is a long relationship. It may be tough for you to do, but this may be her opportunity to work on that self-confidence so she can make new friends and survive. Be sensitive about it, but you have to decide if you want to continue to allow her to rely on you or not.

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