Ok I have to say I think its sort of funny that the only people complaining about their size are guys over 6'5".
I never thought of proportion issues.
Being average length and extra-large girth I'm quite happy. When I've been with women were the length was an issue it just hurts them, and not in a good way, but no one ever complains 'to wide, to wide!'.
But really the penis is over rated in the whole endeavor. Size does matter but its a bonus, they should have gotten off prior to it being an issue in the first place if you did your due diligence.