I cherish the day I lost my virginity shortly after I turned 20. It may not have been the best sex I've ever had, but it released such a burden on my shoulders that for once in my life, I finally felt like a complete man.
However, that didn't mean I suddenly felt like chasing every woman out there. I do cherish the times I'm with them and definitely take advantage of the opportunities. But after I've lost my cherry, I no longer felt as if I must absolutely mate with someone to feel complete. Instead, I can now take my time to find the right person who can satisfy my emotional desires as well as my physical desires.
Even though we didn't stick together, I still remember that girl very fondly. And she'll always have a place in my heart.
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