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Originally Posted by cadre
Personally, I'd rather have someone with more partners, it means they won't be as clingy and they're probably better in bed.
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Hold up, this is basically the same thing as a person generalizing a negative quality with too many partners.
# of sexual partners DOES NOT equal better sex. Believe me. Again, its the person and whether they even give a rat's ass if the other person is enjoying the experience.
I can assure you, that with the "limited" number of partners compared to other men out there, you would find sex with me WAY more pleasurable than many of those 'players' out there. I have been having sex pretty much non-stop for 14 years. Even though i have not had lots of partners, i have had to learn how to please each woman, learn to be a better lover, basically find out how to make them cum and as often as possible.
The last girl, with the 20+ boyfriends was the worst partner i have ever had. Worst at oral, worst in bed, she handled genitals without any concern whether things were painful, enjoyable, nothing! So many times I had to say, "yo, that hurts!" She was the biggest disappointment when it came to sex. All she knew how to do well is get herself off, she never had to really learn to please someone else or seemed to give a fuck. She was onto a fresh relationship as soon as things got boring.
these generalizations whether for men or women are just more situations where you can be seriously dissapointed.
I think you should look for someone who is caring and looking for a long-term relationship. numbers are just illusions. its values and the quality that you should look for in the relationship otherwise likely one or the other person is just looking to get a short-term fulfillment.