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Originally Posted by Rococo
yeah, and how are you supposed to believe that she won't get bored of King kong 50,001 and look for something fresh with 50,002?
its not about the "number" its about what value the person holds in making that particular relationship work.
if you want to have a friend with benefits then yeah, numbers don't mean shit. if you are hoping to spend your life with someone who jumps from person to person everytime something isn't working out just the way they want it, then you're in for a disappointment.
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So she's had 50,000 lovers (silly, but you get the point). She's 35 and just came out of a monogamous longterm (say 5 - 10 yrs) relationship. Would that change things? Would you have even listened to her story, or would the number have sent you flying out the door?
Men and women both often do things for the wrong reason, especially when we're young. Sometimes we grow up. That's why judgments based on numbers sucks and just proves we really need to listen to one another.