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Originally Posted by inBOIL
I'd be uncomfortable with a woman who has had too many partners, although I don't really think there's a cutoff point. I'd like to think that I have a noteworthy place in her list of lovers, above and beyond being Mr. Right Now. Ideally, I'd like to be the best she's ever had, but I could settle for being the beast at a particular act. I'd like to know that she shares something with me that she's never shared with anyone else. I wouldn't want to get done fucking her with my A-game and have her think "He's good, but not as good as that guy I hooked up with in Cancun." That's a lot less likely when she's had four partners than when she's had fifty.
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You determine your worth by how many men she can compare you with and keeping those numbers low makes you a better lover?
I think, inBOIL, you're the only one to come out and say it (kudos for your honesty!) but this is the underlying issue for the men that have a number in mind.
Instead of twisting the numbers to suit your needs, though, why not look at it this way:
Damn! That woman's slept with 50,000 men and she chooses me? I am King Kong!