Dude, to give you some perspective of what I consider to be responsible intercourse (anything involving the penis and vagina, regardless of the "tip" or the whole deal), we used condoms AND birth control for the first 3.5 years of our exclusive relationship, including a year of marriage. This was not due to fear of disease (we have always been monogamous/tested), but simply because we did not want to get pregnant, not even accidentally. And that was in a MARRIED, monogamous relationship! Granted, we're slightly more paranoid/cautious than the average couple, but the payoff was 100% peace of mind, all the time... nothing can replace that, not even the best orgasm.
For chrissakes', man... not that anything we say here is going to get into your skull, as usual, but PROTECT YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN HEALTH AND WELFARE!
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran
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