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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
I dont reject your point of view I just dont agree with it. Same as I dont agree with atheists or people who think its a good idea to use the three day rule when getting a girls phone number, or that the number of people a person has slept with prior to their current S/O is really that big a deal.
I've never said that you werent entitled to think about it what you want, Im just REALLY confused with the "when its ok and when its not ok" to express that someone is "doable"
You and Abaya both have stated you wouldnt "hang" with people that do that and that confuses me. Now....Im not some chick that hangs out in bars with the "hens" (actually I dont hang out in bars at all) and oogles guys (or girls) left and right. BUT neither Dave or I have a problem when we are out and about and people watching stating that a particular person has piqued our interest.
I've read and I've read and I still really dont get why thats wrong?
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I'm really hesitant to reply to this thread again, but I missed your response here before, shani, so I wanted to address it very quickly so that it doesn't appear that I ignored you.
I think I stated plainly many times that the occasional use of phrases like this were not the issue. I was questioning a much bigger issue and it's something that I'm still thinking about. Which I may, if I find the time and inclination, start a new thread about.
I understand that I probably confuse people sometimes because my contributions to threads are often a 'work in progress.' I don't always have fully formed opinions on things when I start talking about them, but if I start to see patterns and connections that intrigue me, my mind starts working overtime and that can cause the topics to stray and it's a pain in the ass, I know...but I question
everything, including my own thinking patterns.
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Originally Posted by UsTwo
Well all'righty then.
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I could have gone through your last post line by line and said,
'no, that's not what I meant...no, what I meant was...perhaps, but the way I see it...etc., etc.,' but at that point it seemed like a waste of time.
Besides, I was serious when I said your comment about the women's liberation movement and it's possible after-effects piqued my interest. It stopped me short, as a matter of fact, and I am still thinking about it...