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Technically, my first time was also with a virgin. But we'd both done everything but... (with other people). And she'd already broken her hymen while masturbating with a hot dog. We did it on and off on a regular basis for about six months or so, and in retrospect, I realize it was never all that great (of course we were both only 13, so...).
I would never have sex with a virgin now. In part that's because I'm 34, and most people lose it between 15 and 20, which would make me more than a little creepy if I were interested. Or you've got the occasional 25 year old virgin or even older, which would make them a little creepy to me (only reasons I can think of to be a virgin at 25+ are either religious fundamentalism or crippling psychoemotional issues).
Also, I teach for a living. I'm damned if I'll do it in the bedroom when I get home....
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Dull sublunary lovers love,
Whose soul is sense, cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
That thing which elemented it.
(From "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne)
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