So far I seem to share none of the same problems with you women when it comes to hair. I wish I did so I'd have some solutions... -_-
My hair is thin, limp, fair, slightly wavy (as in it seems to have a natural wave to it), and gets oily very easily because of all of this. This is the main reason I don't like to wear my hair down, it gets dirty too fast and makes my head feel itchy and....well, gross all over.
I struggle constantly with making my hair looke more full and rich...volumized I guess you could say. And I'm still trying to figure out why every brush I touch, even combs, make my hair static-happy. Even those ones that claim to prevent static-happy hair.
But, the biggest problem with my hair is the huge product limitations. It needs the perfect amount of shampoo to keep it happy, and I can only condition my hair at max once a week or else I look like I never showered at all. -_-
The strangest part of my scalp is, though my hair seems to get oily fast, my scalp is so dry and flaky. Head and shoulders does not help me there, I've tried.
After the shower products are a nightmare too. If I use too much, I have to wash it all out again... ugh. And people wonder why I just throw my hair up in a ponytail and give up
This is why! What a mess.
So no, I have never found that perfect hair product of any sort. Even the products used at professional salons are a real mess to my hair! *sighs*
So far, the only shampoo that seems to keep a somewhat good/stable balance on my head is Neutrogena's T-Gel Shampoo or Shampoo/Conditioner.
If anyone has an ideas to help me out, please share them! *begs*