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Yeah, they're called "push presents," as Ustwo reminded us. There was a big article in the NY Times about it recently. I didn't know it was a Jewish tradition, however.

I agree with getting a maid, or at least a book of coupons or something less flashy, more useful... but that's my thing. I'm not a fan of flashy jewelry whatsoever, especially not as a reward for shoving a bowling ball through my cervix... but if that's what she wants, then get it for her.

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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
--Khalil Gibran