I told my partner that I wanted him to get more rough with me... and I started scratching and biting him more. It took him awhile to open up, but eventually he started getting into it. We bought a whip and a flogger, and he really enjoys pulling my hair/choking me.
And I recently got him to really yell at me in a derogatory manner during sex. It was kind of hard for him to call me a dirty little fucking whore.
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